What they lack in stature, they make up for in good character and fun holidays.I'm not biased because I've been wading in this Dead Sea of candidates for my entire lifetime — I'm actually quite tired of it.In the Book of Proverbs, a man is instructed to treat his wife with respect: But it wasn’t until the Babylonian Talmud that Jews came up with a blueprint for the ideal man, says Daniel Boyarin, historian of religion at the University of California, Berkeley and author of Unheroic Conduct.An early anti-Semitic myth of medieval Europe was that Jewish men menstruated, perhaps as a result of their womanly excesses or dealings with the devil. In the 1890s, the Austrian-Jewish therapist put forth the idea of homosexuality as mental illness.Yet this “ideal Jewish male femme” was also the pinnacle of manliness, a sexual force to be reckoned with. Other cultures twisted the feminized edelkayt into something negative. Go to JDate.com, and you’re guaranteed to find one: “I’m just a nice Jewish boy who loves his mother’s cooking.” “Message me if you are looking for a nice Jewish boy who values family, respect and loyalty.” The story begins in the Bible, where the best men are portrayed as more brain than brawn (see: the bookish Jacob, who outsmarts his burly brother Esau).At the time, homosexuals were identified by their feminine traits—and who better fit that description than the Jewish man?“The most manly Jew is more feminine than the least manly Aryan,” wrote the Austrian philosopher Otto Weininger.
Your comment was successfully submitted and will be published in accordance with site policy. ” The search for a nice Jewish boy (NJB) is lodged deeply—and ambivalently—in the Jewish-American psyche. Go to JDate.com, and you’re guaranteed to find one: “I’m just a nice Jewish boy who loves his mother’s cooking.” “Message me if you are looking for a nice Jewish boy who values family, respect and loyalty.” “I’m a nice jewish girl looking for a nice jewish boy lol, now how cliché does that sound?By the 16th century, this Jewish archetype had a name: edelkayt.The Yiddish word—which derives from edel, or noble—referred to “a quality of gentleness, almost softness,” says Boyarin.